Psychologist Dr RK Suri
Relationship and Marriage Counselling
MARRIAGE COUNSELLING
According to counselor Dr. Rk Suri, couples frequently confide in him about their deep sadness and fear that there is no hope left for their relationship. They no longer communicate with each other, their trust has diminished, and they seldom ever have sex. I also often see fundamentally solid couples who may be going through a particular crisis and would benefit from a professional’s assistance.
A wide range of issues, such as communication and conflict resolution, intimacy and sexual issues, fighting and anger issues, identity and role conflict, independence vs. dependence, religion, ethics and values, jealousy, parenting, infidelity, money and finances, family and in-law struggles, stepfamily issues, gender roles, infertility/adoption, and many more, are addressed when couples seek relationship counseling.
HOW WE APPROACH COUPLES COUNSELLING at TalktoAngel
Dr. RK Suri is a seasoned couples and marriage counselor with 40 years of experience helping couples restore harmony and peace to their lives as well as save their marriage. She starts by teaching a communication style that enables partners to work through problems together both during and after treatment..
Make sure both partners are aware of the purposes of therapy.
Establish the parameters of the therapy so that both parties feel comfortable sharing their perspectives in a way that the other can hear and comprehend, even if they don’t agree.
Establish the groundwork for couples to have conscious relationships by helping each partner recognize how they are fueling the problems and how adopting a different communication style might help them have the happy, harmonious relationship they both deserve.
Trouble in Your Relationship? Don’t worry, recognize these indicators in your partnership to promptly seek marriage counseling.
In a type of therapy called online marriage counseling, married couples work with a therapist to identify, explore, and ultimately address the issues that are occurring in their relationship. The purpose of it is to “treat” the marriage. Finding the positive aspects of the relationship and enhancing them is a part of the therapeutic process. Marriage counseling is therefore solution- and goal-oriented.
The following are indications in your marriage or relationship that you ought to get relationship counseling:
- Negative communication: It is frequently challenging to turn a declining communication between partners back towards a positive trajectory. Anything that makes one partner feel low, uneasy, ignored, or as though they should retreat from their emotions—including nonverbal cues and emotional or physical abuse—can be considered negative communication.
- when a married pair starts acting more like roommates than spouses. It does not imply that a couple is in danger if they are not doing everything together. If a couple believes they just “co-exist” and there is a lack of intimacy, communication, or other aspects they consider vital, this may be a sign that a qualified clinician can assist identify what is lacking and how to get it back.
- When a pair admits they understand what’s wrong but are stumped for ideas.
- when one partner has had an affair, or when one or both partners are considering having one.
- when a couple chooses to remain together in order to raise their kids. Couples frequently think they are doing the right thing when, in reality, remaining together is bad for the kids. In contrast, this might be the greatest course of action for everyone concerned if the couple is able to work through their differences and move toward a happy, healthy partnership.
How to Make Your Partnership Last a Lifetime
We have the chance every day to strengthen our relationships even more than they were the day before. Sometimes all it takes to make our partner feel more listened, loved, and accepted is a small behavioral adjustment. Relationship counselor Dr. RK Suri offers a few easy suggestions that can change your relationship completely and reignite the passion.
- Take that extra step
Make the extra effort to ease your partner’s life if you observe that they are really busy. Even though you might not regularly clean dishes, if you notice that your partner hasn’t had much time to breathe, give in and take care of that dirty plate sink while your cleaner is on vacation. - Never stop dating.
Our lives can get rather busy with work, kids, friends, and chores. Rather than turning your marriage into a schedule, schedule a day once a month when you can both leave your children with your parents or a relative (if that’s possible), take a vacation from work, and go out for a romantic dinner or a long bike ride with your spouse.Make sure the task can divert your thoughts from concerns about EMIs, debts, children’s schooling, in-laws, and obligations. These dates are excellent opportunities to find out how the other person is feeling, discuss shared hobbies, or try something entirely different. - Remember the power of touch.
When their marriage ages to ten or fifteen years old, or when their children grow up, a lot of couples have a tendency to stop showing each other the gentle affection and care that is necessary for a healthy relationship.Hugging, holding hands, and putting your arm around your partner’s shoulder should never end. regardless of how old your marriage is.
