You might be asking what in the world are “Mail Order Wife” and what kind of mangoes after them? If you are also asking who they are or where they are from, you would not be alone. You see, there is a secret, mysterious world out there for Western men who think outside the box when it comes to finding love and sex. While most people don’t think about the men who seek out these foreign ladies, many know at least a little something about Mail Order Wives. They think of beautiful Vietnamese brides, or some such location, who are looking for a Western husband so that they can escape their home country and lead a better life elsewhere. To a certain extent, this notion is, in fact, correct.
Mail Order Wives could not exist; however, if it were not for the men from the West who pursue them. Interestingly, some of these men like to live for a brief period as an expatriate citizen in countries that have choice locations for dating hot foreign ladies. Sometimes these men only spend a few weeks there over months or years, and other times these guys chose to live in these locales for years on end. While living abroad, they are also quite dedicated to the process of finding love, sex, or both. When Mail Order Women and Western men associate, there is almost always an unbelievably magnetic dynamic that takes hold of them. Indeed, love and sex are easy to come by for these men in this “new world.”
Few people truly understand the intricacies of this intriguing and somewhat secretive institution. Moreover, even the Western men who pursue Mail Order Wife themselves usually do not fully understand or know about all the aspects of this mysterious world. This ignorance handicaps these guys because they are unable to appreciate all the avenues of opportunity available to them. Unfortunately, they usually get so focused on marriage agencies and the internet to find Mail Order Wife that they fail to realize that this forum for meeting foreign women is only one piece of the pie. Still, almost all these men, no matter how they meet foreign ladies, will concede that they do better with Mail Order Women than they do with the women from their own country.
Such successful results beg the question of why more Western men are not seeking mail order wife? No doubt the answer lies with all the myths surrounding this industry. Propaganda disseminated by news organizations around the world like to sensationalize this practice since it is a topic that really sells for advertisers. Women are portrayed as weak individuals who are desperate to get out of their country and will do anything to accomplish that near-impossible feat. Western men, in turn, are portrayed as men who unscrupulously pick out or even buy a wife and any particular woman really doesn’t have the capacity to say no to him. The truthful part about these myths is that women and men are looking for mates. But it is probably closer to the truth to say that these women if they had their druthers, would prefer to stay in their country of origin if they could find a suitable domestic husband. The same might be said of these Western men, by the way.
Women generally have a greater desire than men to be near their family, however. This is true, no matter where people were raised. Still, many Westerners mistakenly believe that most Vietnamese women are dying to move to America, or some such country, for the “good life.” The absolute truth though is that most of these foreign women will only move to a Westernized country if their instinct to be near their family is overridden by a newly acquired desire to be with a wonderful Western man. Many people argue that this practice is just downright crazy based on numerous misconceptions about the industry. Really though, the only insane part is that two people can or should get married after only a short period knowing one another. Yet, this is true everywhere.